Why is it Asian, Filipino, Korean, Japanese & Hawaiian girls don't seem to like Black men?

I am a 27 yr old black man from the La, CA. I'm 5'9", 160 lbs, w/ big drk brown eyes, shrt black hair, milk chocolate skin %26amp; a medium build. I am working on my degree %26amp; work full time for a hospital. *****Here is my question....It frustrates me that most Asian girls seem to not be attracted to Black men. More like repulsed really. I suppose you could blame the media. Black males are portrayed as criminals n gangsters but why is it these women as smart as they are can't look past that %26amp; see all black men are not like that? I have been raised in the suburbs in a city with many asians... and have many asian friends as well (both male %26amp; female) but it seems they have such a difficult time even comprehending being with a black man. Drop me a line here or im me **signed single, searcing, frustrated %26amp; confused in Los Angeles**

Why is it Asian, Filipino, Korean, Japanese %26amp; Hawaiian girls don't seem to like Black men?

Well I can tell you this out of honesty and observation, so please don't take offense. Most asian women do not want to be with a black man because most (NOT EVERYONE) black guys here in houston are high school drop outs and act rude and degenerate. Most of them live in bad areas of town and the ones they see are always wearing gangsta apparel or a do-rag. It's a turn off for an educated female to hear ebonics. NOT ALL BLACK MEN are like this. you are educated. However, from the bad reputation from the media and the environmental surroundings, most asian women want men who have goals in life, intelligence, manners, and stability. Most black men here in houston are on welfare, either that, the education level and the way they act and present themselves in public are not exactly appealing. You see black men with their pants hanging below their underware, and listening to R%26amp;B and rap music very loud. I understand this is not true of every single black guy here, but because of the high numbers of people they see on a daily basis here, it's hard to not stereotype. Even I get stereotyped. But I have had many encounters with black men here. I have been called racist names and been robbed several times by them so it left me with a bad impression. I can't help but feel uncomfortable around most of them. I do stereotyoe sometimes.

Why is it Asian, Filipino, Korean, Japanese %26amp; Hawaiian girls don't seem to like Black men?

so, why do you care is not like all black women are finished or something.

Why is it Asian, Filipino, Korean, Japanese %26amp; Hawaiian girls don't seem to like Black men?

thats not true..I was on the train this weekend and I saw a chinese girl with a black guy..they looked cute together but didnt seem happy together..

Why is it Asian, Filipino, Korean, Japanese %26amp; Hawaiian girls don't seem to like Black men?

Maybe this is only in your mind because of the media.

Look, just think they love u and they will love u.

Its all in your mind sometimes and not theirs.

Think more positive, these days and times, noone cares about color like they did in the 1920's.

Life is a new era, and all race should get along.

Folks are more worried about terrorists instead of race colors.

Why is it Asian, Filipino, Korean, Japanese %26amp; Hawaiian girls don't seem to like Black men?

It may be that those particular backgrounds are also very family orientated so there might be more family/ social pressures then just plain old not liking you because your black.

Why is it Asian, Filipino, Korean, Japanese %26amp; Hawaiian girls don't seem to like Black men?

Asians tend to date asians. It's just a cultural preference. Probably has nothing to do with any sterotypes. Keep looking, there are plenty of asian girls who are open minded and will date other than asian. (But I cannot help recall that scene from the movie Full Metal Jacket....the vietnamese prostitute refused to do the black man because he was "too beaucoup"...so he had to show her it's wasn't too much...it was just right)

Why is it Asian, Filipino, Korean, Japanese %26amp; Hawaiian girls don't seem to like Black men?

I am black and my wife is japanese. So maybe the problem isn't with them but with you. You need to chage your approach and date all women not just look for Asian women. Once you have figured out how to talk to women and show them respect , then maybe you'll be as luck as me.

Why is it Asian, Filipino, Korean, Japanese %26amp; Hawaiian girls don't seem to like Black men?

I don't think so. I have seen a lot of Asian women with black men, and they look good together. So relax!

Why is it Asian, Filipino, Korean, Japanese %26amp; Hawaiian girls don't seem to like Black men?

The same reason black women typically don't give white guys a second look - stereo types are a hard thing break or go against. Similarly, I don't see many Asian women with white guys either. Maybe it's a cultural thing that precludes them from dating outside their ethnicity. Good luck to you on your search.

Why is it Asian, Filipino, Korean, Japanese %26amp; Hawaiian girls don't seem to like Black men?

Yeah, oriental girls r considered the most beautiful women on Earth 2 me, but hey.. I ADORE guys s don't think I'm weird. Umm.. I never noticed this before, but now that u mention it.. it's kinda true. But I think it's because in those parts their races never had much contact with black men except as salves in the old times, so it's kinda tradition that they keep thinking of them as a lower "species".

I'm a german girl, and I've seen black guys that r really cute, my best friend is almost black, and I loove him, he's so handsome!.

But I'm only 1 of 1000000, they're a lot of girl wo like 'em.

Good luck!.

:) a friend.

Why is it Asian, Filipino, Korean, Japanese %26amp; Hawaiian girls don't seem to like Black men?

What you say is 100 % right.Where I live,I saw Asian women,and Philippine women dating with men from others countries as Africa,Canada,Spanish.Maybe the girls in your area, are racists or afraid to date men from others countries.Good question.

Why is it Asian, Filipino, Korean, Japanese %26amp; Hawaiian girls don't seem to like Black men?

As a tri-racial woman I assure you that you being black has nothing to do with it. I was raised in Hawaii and there are so many Asian American woman with black GI's all over the world that it would make your head swim. I will admit that if they are from a affluent family they prefer to marry in their own race to carry on their blood line and if you had all these Asian friends you should have known that. Most are not from the best of families so the issue may be you not them. Since it seems you are are only looking for Asian, exotic women.

Why is it Asian, Filipino, Korean, Japanese %26amp; Hawaiian girls don't seem to like Black men?

Hey i just want to say that it may not be you. Most people have the ideal person set in thier head. Many times it is of a certain race. But those who can just look past race have a very narrow view on life. And this narrow view will preclude them from the many joys in life. Many asia etc... are attracted to those of the caucasin race. And many black males are targeted by black and white males and females. So you have many options. So i say to you that you must keep looking for the perfect person. And they probably think that you are too much for them to handle and that may be the case. But you have to keep on trying and when you suceed you can look back and tell those who laughed and criticized you that you made it. Keep your head up.

Why is it Asian, Filipino, Korean, Japanese %26amp; Hawaiian girls don't seem to like Black men?

I guess part of it is on you. I'm not trying to be harsh, but if you keep getting rejected, why do you continue pursuing women who are not interested? You're putting yourself through something that's not even necessary.

In regards to your question: When Asian women date outside their race it's usually with White men. That's pretty much the standard, especially in California. I've seen Asian women with Black men (our Black male neighbor is married to a Korean woman), but I find if they are not with an Asian man, they are with White guys. The more affluent the family, the more pressure it is to date an Asian of the same status or a White man.

Women in general are attracted to power. And in American, the White Male is the symbol of that power. Socially, Black men are pretty much the opposite of White men. They are less likely to be highly educated, powerful, rich, and respected than their White counterparts. So in a lot of people's eyes (not just Asians), choosing a Black male as your spouse is a step down on the social scale. And in lots of cases, Asian parents who would only be mildly upset if their daughter married a White man would totally loose it if he was Black. That's just the cold reality of it.

You may be coming off as an Asiaphile who's desperate to meet Asian girls. That would chase away any interested Asian woman. No woman likes a desperate man!

Hope it works out for you!

Why is it Asian, Filipino, Korean, Japanese %26amp; Hawaiian girls don't seem to like Black men?

Women of all races except the Black ones don't like Brothers. Like you said, part of their dislike stems from he fact that, in terms of socioeconomics, Black people occupy the lowest rung on the ladder. Another part of it can be attributed to the fact that they didn't grow up around Black men. It has been shown scientifically that there are some people that aren't attracted to any men but those around whom they grew up. I know what you're about to say: These women seem to be attracted to White men, though. True, but, like we've already suggested, White men are more socially desirable than Black men. This fact probably compensates for the fact that they didn't grow up around any such men. It could also be that they consider White men to be more like Asian men than are Black men. I don't know. It is true that the Asian hair texture is closer to White hair than it is to Black hair. However, some of members of the races you mentioned can be really dark. However, I've noticed that White men seem to be more attracted to Asian women, even the Southeastern variety, than they are to Black women. I've further noticed that they seem to like the fact that these women have "nice, tight asses." Maybe it could be that body type of the group plays a part in attraction as well.

Although I feel bad for you, it's really refreshing to hear a Brother admit that women aren't attracted to Black men. Although I don't like to think of myself this way, I am mixed (B %26amp;W) and grew up in a fairly integrated area. Although I look "half" (some mixed Brothers look light-skinned Black) and am widely considered to be very handsome, I've noticed that very few White women are interested in me. I've also noticed that, for the ones that are interested in me, it seems to be more of a "look-but-don't-touch" attraction. What's more, Eastern Asian women (especially the Chinese) have a knack for identifying me as Black. This is amazing to me in that they come from countries where they don't even have any Black people. I'll tell you, besides Black and White people, Asians are they best out of pulling the Black out of me. However, I have had a little success with the Filipinas. Assuming you can differentiate them, I'd say you should start there as they seem to be far less racist than other Asian women. Personally, I have had the most success with Hispanic women, especially Puerto Rican. Puerto Rican women seemed to be okay with the fact that I am half-Black. As for the Mexicans, they like me as they think that I look Hispanic. When they find out I'm Black, they are still pretty cool with it, probably because they still think I look good. However, when I stress to them that I'm Black they start acting funny. At first, they say something like: "Estas loco? A mi no me pareces *****. tu eres mejor que eso." You know, just saying that I'm better than that, yatta yatta. Then, when I persist that that is the way I identify myself and hence want to be identified, they start acting funny. When I was in Mexico on a study abroad, it actually came to the point where they were making fun of me, which led to all sorts of problems in that I wasn't about to put up with any stuff from my Mexican hosts. This anecdote just goes to show how serious the racial hang-ups and obsessions that people have over Black people are. I also told this story because I saw that you are out there in California and, for that reason, I feel sorry for you. When I was growing up, while there was prejudice and discrimination, it was mostly all Black and White. Now that's starting to change with the Mexicans and the Somolians. It was so much better that way!!! Back in the 90s, we had an explosion of interracial dating between Black men and White women. But, for whatever reason, the more the immigrants came in the less Black man/White woman interracial dating you would see. Nowadays, outside of the big White women and the young, almost "wiggerish" types, the main Black/White interracial couples you see are White MEN and Black WOMEN!!! Be strong.

Why is it Asian, Filipino, Korean, Japanese %26amp; Hawaiian girls don't seem to like Black men?

are you forgetting that people have preferences , the GREATEST THING IN LIFE%26gt; CHOICE

Why is it Asian, Filipino, Korean, Japanese %26amp; Hawaiian girls don't seem to like Black men?

funny since one of my sisters always dates black guys.

Why is it Asian, Filipino, Korean, Japanese %26amp; Hawaiian girls don't seem to like Black men?

Maybe you are ... ugly? smelly? rude? mean? Im white (but not racist at all) but from my experience, it seems that all of the black men I meet smell awful! You might smell nice to a black lady but to other races you smell bad. You should try showering every morning and night and using doederant and colonge for white poeple (or asian, or filipino, or hawian) because that is the kind of scent they will be attracted to. Believe me, as a woman, smell is very important when meeting someone new.